Do you think my man is cheating on me?
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
My husband is a truck driver and i'm a stay at home mom, I think my husband is cheating on me but it would be very hard to try and catch him seeing i don't see or hardly hear from him til the weekends. But when he is home he don't talk to me much, he talks on the phone more,sometimes even hides in the bathroom with the phone and claims he's using the bathroom. He leaves for hours at a time and goes to his uncles or so he says. He doesn't want sex much. It had gotten up to 3 weeks and i finally had to just about seduce him,in other words he was reluctant. we've been married for 8 years and he's a good providor and father, he's home usually every other day. and runs constantly for his job. I'm to my wits end please can you give me some advice?This is only the tip oof the iceberg.He doesn't even hug me when i cry trying to talk to him about the problem. He ignores me and says there is no problem. Do you think my man is cheating on me?
I can't say whether he is cheating or not... some of the signs are there.
What you two should do is go to a professional counselor and get advice based on input from both of you. If he won't go then go yourself.
You deserve better than what you are getting so make it a priority.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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