I'm just trying to be there for her now and cheer her up in anyway possible
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
My girlfriend and i have been together for about a year and a half and we are extremelly happy but last week i was at a night club with friends and some chick tried to kiss me. I didn't let her and carried this chick then tried again but still i backed off. The next day i told my girlfriend about it and all was cool. The following day my girlfriend and i went out together and then i came to realise that people were telling her that i cheated on her. She wanted to breakup and we did. She told me that she believes me but she hasn't been feeling the same about us for the last 3 weeks. This I know isn't true and she admitted to me later that i was right. We got back togehter and she told me that she didn't know what was happening and if she wanted the long relationship but she does and she loves me more than i will ever know. Everything still going fine except that the last 2 days she has been really weird and quiet. She makes me feel like a stranger sometimes. This an on and off thing of hers. I love her and don't want to lose her but i don't know what to do. It's not PMS and it's not me she says, she doesn't know why she is like this. I'm just trying to be there for her now and cheer her up in anyway possible. I don't need someone to tell me what to do i just want to know what someone else thinks about this and maybe some advice. Thank you
It's too early to get a read on this. Not enough time has passed for her real feelings to have come out.
My advice is to continue doing what you have been--being supportive.
Talking more might help.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com