I am Jealous because I want her sooo bad, and she is so sweet.Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
OK here is the story first.
I met this girl a couple months ago. We started going out like within a week of meeting each other. She always told me that she REALLY REALLY liked me and hoped for long time together, she like adored me. Things were cool all the time between us. But then we got into a big fight about some things I have heard about her from really good friends. It sucked, I asssumed to much. Now, last Saturday we talked and she decided that she wants to get to know me better before we engage in a relationship. So I guess we are dating now. But unfortunatly her email password is is not one of my favorite tools right now. She is talking to like 2 guys and it looks as if she is interested in them, it doesnt make sense. Did she have dark ulterior motives so move back to dating me? Was she leading me on? I dont know whether she really like me or not. I dont know, but I am Jealous because I want her sooo bad, and she is so sweet. I know I really dont have a right on being jealous because we arent committed, but it bugs me. Give me anything you got man...how I can win her over, how to overcome thsi jealousy would be nice thank you.
Jealous 17 year old
Part of winning her over will be getting rid of your jealousy.
But first, you need to ask her what her feelings are about other guys. In other words are you the only one in her life? She may be honest and say that she is still looking for the best man and so far you are the one. That would be good news.
To continue winning her over, have long, deep, honest, caring and trusting conversations with her. Sharing feelings will bond her to you.
To get over your jealousy, you need to treat those jealous feelings as enemies that you must destroy. Whenever a jealous thought comes into your mind, tell it to go away because she cares for you the most. After 100 times or so the jealous thoughts will give up trying to bother you and go away.
Good luck! George
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