What was I supposed to do-- throw in the boine with my feelings?
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
i went out with this guy for a month i fell hard for him rite from the beginningi loved him more than words can express he called one nite to let me know he wasnt coming..and since he did itt previosly,i said its not like im not used too it..and that was the end of our reelationship i tried tyo get him to talk too me he and i even went over to try to to talk to him but,then i did confrount him a month later when i did finally get too see him and still nothing he just left without any justifaction what so ever he said it made him mad that i went out there to try to talk to him...what was i supposed to do throw in the boine with my fellings and say whatever i mean i truelly loved him..and its been 2 months now our rel. only lasted a month hes still there every sec in my brain no matter who i go out with or what i doo and still he wont explain anything nor talk just avoidence...why?
Right now you are stuck on him.
It's only been a short time since you split up so you should give it more time before worrying too much about it. Obviously he caught your heart and then left you with no explanation. That is one of the hardest break ups-- not knowing why the other person split. It can keep you hung up on that person longer than the usual break up.
Give it more time and stop wondering why he left. He may not know himself.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com