How do I make her feel closer to me?Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Ok, i have been writing to you and just to let you know we ended up getting back together! I used the techniques of avoiding her and still being nice but agreeing with everthing she had to say and do. Now that we have been back together for a while now, i have one important question to ask. I'm wondering that now we are together, how do i make her feel closer to me? What i mean by this is I am a very affectionate person and she really isn't. she is like this because of the relationship she was in for four years before us. They didnt show affection at all. I love it when she holds my hand, lays her head on my chest, starts kissing me, holds me, asks me to do things...etc. It is very rare when these occur with her starting it all and i just want to know if it is possible to loosen her feelings up and help her start showing how she feels inside? If it is possible, what is the best way to go about doing this and bringing us even closer together? She says she wants to be exclusive. I have been complimenting her A LOT and doing everything for her, not because i want her closer but because thats because of how i am, very giving. Please give me as much advice as possible and help me anyway you can, like you have in the past. Thanks in advance.
Seems you are already doing all the things that would make a woman feel affectionate towards you.
Don't rock the boat with her since you just recently got back together with her. Once things settle down some it will be time for you and her to have some long, loving, honest and trusting conversations to help you figure out how she could be more affectionate.
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Good luck! George
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