I've been spending more time with A*, then my friends keep teasing me about it
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Hi, it's me again, the guy who was in a messy situation last time, in case you forgot,I'll tell you again.There were 3 girls, A*(1 of my mates), B*(some1 who i was developing feelings for) and S* (a girl who likes me but I don't feel the same way)...I know you told me to go for B* because we are developing feelings for each other and A* was quite confused and don't worry about S* (by the way, S* is obsessed about me and that really freak me out...)
Anyway, this time what i want to ask is NOT who should i go out with, coz you'll probably say B* again, bt she got a bf now...What i want to ask is this...Lately A* and her best friends had a huge fight, her friends had been mean to A* since she went out with her ex, and now she's pretty lonely and sad everyday...What i need to know is how can i help her, she said she's sick of them being mean to her, but I can tell they miss each other...Of course I know I can spend my time with A* everyday, but there's another problem,most of my friends don't really like A*, they are always mean to her because of her height...(she's a lil short bt i found that adorable)In the past few days, i've been spending more time with A*, then my friends keep teasing me about it...what should i do?
Here are the question:
What should i do to help A*?
And what can i do about my friends?
Please give me some advices because A* has been unwell lately and I really want to help her...Your advice will be much appreciated
The best you can do is to be a good friend to A* while she suffers from mean friends.
Listen closely to what she finds most hurtful and see if you can think of anything to help her out. But don't talk to her friends because that will make it worse for her. If the problem is her dating her ex then you could help her understand that sometimes relationships will cause problems with other people and she needs to understand that and not take it so seriously.
As far as you friends. Once, in high school, my best friend was making fun of a girl I liked. So I told him if he didn't cut it out I'd punch him in the face. He stopped the teasing right away. Anyhow, just tell your friends how you care for this girl and you'd appreciate it if they would stop it.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com