I sometimes wish I could melt them together and have the perfect guy! Haha, I wish.
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
My ex-boyfriend and I were together for alittle over 5 years and we lived together for 2 1/2 of those years, before he broke up with me 2 days after my 21st birthday. He was obviously my highschool sweetheart and we shared great memories together. The relationship wasnt perfect (like all) but we made it work. Everyone says he got cold feet and got scared (from what, i dont know, we werent even talking marriage at the time) and broke up with me. It was a mess because we lived together, had furniture, even a dog! About 2 months later, I met someone who I worked with and we started hanging out. He knew my situation and after a little while, hanging out became dating (something I have never done before because I was 15 when I met my ex). Alot happened too quickly with him and now we arent together anymore. He is in love with me but Im not in love with him. On top of it, it sucks because he has so many qualitys that I want in a guy. It makes me mad that Im not in love with him. Right now Im single, and I know youre probably thinking, "Good, stay that way for a while". Im not one of those girls who has to have a guy around her at all times, but I definitely enjoy relationship life. My ex knows Im available again, and I did fill him in on what happened and how IM NOT READY FOR A FULL BLOWN RELATIONSHIP YET. I've told this to both of them. But lately, Im finding myself seeing both of them, kissing both of them (trust me, thats the only physical thing Im doing), and telling them I love them. Ahhh!!! What do I do? I sometimes wish I could melt them together and have the perfect guy! Haha, I wish. I miss my ex and want to be with him again, but I dont want to get hurt or hurt my current ex, who is in love with me. My old ex says he's in love with me too, and wants to work it out SLOWLY.
Take is slowly and eventually you will decide which one to keep.
Until then, continue doing what you have been doing since it seems to be working fine. Enjoy life as it seems to be enjoyable for you now. Time will work things out for you.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com