I work with her, we have become friends. She of course, has a boyfriend of one year.
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
ok so I have written you guys before about the same girl and the response I got was a good one but wondered if I could get more insight. I work with her, we have become friends. She of course, has a boyfriend of one year. She mentions him here and there but not in praise. Last week, I helped her jumpstart her car. She called her boyfriend to come pick her up. he was apparently not in the mood to come get her. he eventually did but she was wondering outloud what his problem was. I can sense that there may be trouble in paradise but I am not sure. we talk just about everyday at work and we have hung out together outside of work. Once with the boyfriend and once without. She has invited me out a couple of times. the one time I met her boyfriend, she sat and talked to my friend and I the whole time. please give me some advice. am I an idiot or what? do I even have a shot?
a confused fool
Right now it appears she likes you as a friend and not much more.
There is a chance that she and her b/f will split up. And there is a chance that she likes you a little more than friends. But who can tell? You are closest to the situation and it isn't clear to you.
Continue being a good friend and see what develops.
I wish you good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com