Recently I have developed feelings for her(Ok so I'm lieing I've had a crush on her for a year)--

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Hi im 13 years old and I(like many others) Have a best friend who is female.Recently I have developed feelings for her(Ok so im lying Ive had a crush on her for a year)--She has been on and off with a lot of boyfriends and we have never really discussed going out when ever some1 brought it up(family friends etc) we just looked at each other and laughed as the idea was very weird to us both--I really want to ask her out and I have finally got up the courage to do so--we share a lot of common interests-but in looks shes a little out of my league-Im not bad looking but u know--I dont want to ask her out for 1 reason :I AM AFRAID IF SHE SAYS NO OUR FRIENDSHIP MAY END OR BE VERY AWKWARD AND IF SHE SAYS YES AND THEN WE BREAK UP THE SAME THING-I AM REALLY AFRAID SHE IS ONE OF THE BEST FRIENDS IVE EVER HAD I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO PLEASE PLEASE HELP ME I LOVE HER SO MUCH-thank you for your time-(Sorry it was kinda long I need help can u tell? lol) Advice
She is a best friend, you love her, and you're afraid if you tell her it will hurt your friendship.

This is a very common problem. What you need to do is casually tell her that you have "started having feelings" for her. She probably will say that she has feelings for you too. If she doesn't then tell her you will give her a chance to think about it and you will ask her again the next time you see her. Then be sure to ask her the next time you see her!

This is the best way to go. She probably already knows that you care a lot about her because you can't hide how you feel very well.

Good luck! George

-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at

Add RomanceClass  to Twitter Add RomanceClass  to Facebook Add RomanceClass  to MySpace Add RomanceClass  to Digg RomanceClass+ Add RomanceClass  to Yahoo My Web Add RomanceClass  to Google Bookmarks Add RomanceClass  to Stumbleupon Add RomanceClass  to Reddit

Speak Your Mind - Share your Thoughts on this Question!

All Advice in the category - Flirting and Friendship

Browse our Answer Database
- Browse Answers by Question Category
- Browse Answers by Age Group
- Browse Answers by Date of Response

Please read through the advice on this site before you Submit your Own Question! We have thousands of pages of valuable advice that can immediately help you with your situation.