So now I'm confused and I want him back what can I do about this.
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
My name is karla well i just recently met this guy we started dating in school but he wanted to keep it a secret for no one can know this went for 2 weeks it was fun and he was sweet to me but after those 2 weeks we couldn't take it anymore of pretending we were just friends so we started kissing in school and hugging each other so now everyone knew we were going out theres these girl that girl that also liked him she started talking bad about me with out her knowing me. the next day he started to be away from me and be with his friends that was okay with me but after days passed i realizedi was being ignored by him i wrote him a note telling him what was wrong with him and why he was acting like that with me he told me he didn't like to be in the spot with the class makeing fun of us he started hanging around with other girls i was still being ignored so i felt bad and send him a text telling him i hate him that how can he listen to his friends what they say about me. so i saw him today we talked but i was still hurt so we ended being friends. but when we left i told him who was drpoing him off he told my friend she goes to class with me but i realized he lie to me and went with this other girl i dont know if he was making me feel bad so now im confused and i want him back what can i do about this.
You don't want him back. What you want back is that good feeling being with somebody. It's too bad it turned out the way it did, but you must be brave and go on as if it didn't happen.
Forget this guy and look for someone else who will respect you and stand by you when you need it. There are plenty of guys out there who are like this.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com