could you tell me how you are feeling about the space between us

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
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here is my update:

[snipped ex's letter which can't be published without his ok]

so i said


it seems like a great idea, and honestly i'd love to come. but, mixing alcohol with me and all these feelings might not be a good idea, especially since you two will be celebrating your birthdays. you were the most important person in my life for the past two and a half years too, and i still consider you that person. i'd rather not go then cause you grief. lets see how the next two weeks go and i'll tell you then.

aside from that, would you like to go see a movie this weekend and get ice cream or coffee at pjs in clearview?

and....could you tell me how you are feeling about the space between us..? no pressure, it would help me to know

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He invited you to a party but you didn't want to go because of the amount of alcohol. That is probably a good decision since he is so uncertain about his feelings toward you.

Although, if you got him tipsy he might tell you straight out how he feels without all the mental agonizing which he seems to do. Overall, however, I think the risks of going to the party suggest that you stay home. He is probably going to get more than tipsy and that could spell trouble.

I see you wrote a followup question so I'll go to that in a separate note.


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