This guy has done this with another girl and now he doesn't talk to her

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alright, i'll try and sum this up the only way i know how, okay i really like this one guy and i've been waiting to see if he likes me back, well i was seeing another guy i was supposly going to marry. but i broke up w/ him just so i could be with this one guy, well i got him alone and we just sit there in slience for the longest time, well we started to hold hands and i could tell he was hesitant about it cause he kept shaking, well we started making out for like in hour also touching or "Fondling" but i won't get in detail any how we didn't have sex. now he never told me if he liked me and he invited me back to his room to talk. also he gave me his coat earlier that nite, and i asked if he wanted it back or not he told me he didn't care and i could wear it if i wanted to. now i haven't talked to him since. but all my friends think i'm a slut but i've like this guy for almost a year now, and my bestfriend told me she use to like him but was over him but i told her cause i wanted to be honest and she pratically hated me. and everybody told me they lost respect for me. and this guy has done this with another girl and now he doesn't talk to her. i just really like him and i want to know if i was just a one night stand or did it mean anything. plz give some advice i have no where else to turn thank you and i'm sorry about the lenght of the story thanks again... Advice
You didn't do anything wrong so don't worry about that.

Your friends may be jealous of you or whatever.

Try to contact him again and see if he will meet you. If he will, ask him how he feels about you to see if he likes you.

You should be able to tell from his answers whether you have a chance with him or if it was a one night stand for him. But, since you had such a silence the first time, he may not feel comfortable talking about relationships.

In that case, you are probably going to have to call it quits with him. If he can't talk he isn't worth the trouble.

Best of luck to you! George

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