Is it okay for a girl to ask out a guy or should I just wait for him?

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I have recently started a new job and with the new job comes new people. I met this guy who I like alot and would love to go out with. I have been flirting with him and he has been back. One night when we were out he drove me home and I even got a kiss. I really like him alot, and Im about 98% sure he feels the same way. I just dont want to seem too forward and scare him off or worse make things awkward at work. He's a little bit of a shy person and has been hurt really bad in past relationships by his ex cheating. But is it okay for a girl to ask out a guy or should I just wait for him? Advice
It's the 21st century now so it is ok for a woman to ask a man out.

Don't run the risk of losing him because of lack of courage on your part. You say he is shy, so he would appreciate your taking the first step to start your relationship on its way.

He sounds like he likes you so it is very unlikely that he would say no or be upset by your approaching him.

Go for it! George

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