I know if we keep having sex I will fall for him more
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Well a couple of weeks ago I asked you a question on if the guy that I like is using me as a booty call or if he really likes me. You told me to talk to him. I did. He said that he does like me, but he does not want a relationship right now (I think he might still have fillings for his ex-wife). He wants to be friends with benefits. I guess it is ok with me, but I really like him. As I said before I have never felt this way about any one before. I also have in the back of my head that he is my boss and also there is an age difference. He is 37 and I am 24. I know if we keep having sex I will fall for him more, but I don't want to loose what we have. What should I do?
Yes, if you keep having sex you will fall for him more.
But what are your choices? You can split with him and suffer some pain for a while until you get over him. Or you can continue to be friends with benefits and maybe have a LTR. Or he may split with you.
You can't tell what's going to happen. The only thing you have control over is if you split with him.
So, the choice is up to you. Do you want to spend time with him with no promises, or do you want to split with him?
I wish you the best in this! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com