I would be heartbroken if i never got to actually tell him what I was thinking and feeling
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I've been talking to this boy for a little over a year now. We started talking when he was a freshman, I just thought he was just so adorable, but over time it slowly grew into me actually having feelings for him. I kinda exprssed that to him one day, and it was a good thing. But after a while we started going down hill. Being that we were both going to the same school, things got around quick, and I found out that my arch enemy had called herself liking him. He knew I didn't like her at all, but he constantly told me that they were just friends. To me and other people, it seemed to look as if they were a little more than friends, but I could only take his word, because I wasn't sure of anything going on between him. So a couple of days went by, I did my share of crying over him, which is something that I had never done. And I got over my insecuraties, and trusted him, until one day, my enemy came oveer to him while I was talking to him, and "confronted" him, basically asked him was it me or her. I couldn't take it, I walked away. He later came to me and said he just wanted to see what she was about, and he knew that I wouldn't bee cool with that, so let's just be friends for the moment. I wasn't with that, but I let him do what he wanted, because he wasn't with me. Eventually we got back together, and he was back to normal, and I used what we had went through as an obstical that was ment for us to get over together. So when school ended, we still saw each otherr on a regular basis. When school started back this year, I transfered, but we still remained together, but m feelings for him have grown, and I feel that I love him, but I am scard to tell him that being that he is younger than me don't want to push him away! He is always there for me when I need him, all my friends know that I love him, and everybody that comes in contact of us see it too. But I want to tell him, but I dont want him to think I'm crazy or something what should I do? He really seems like mister right to me, and I would be heartbroken if i never got to actually tell him what I was thinking and feeling.
When two people care for each other, one things that is very important is to be able to communicate their thoughts and feelings with each other.
So, you should be able to tell him how you feel.
The problem is that he may not be ready to hear it and may feel pressured.
My advice is to wait until you know him better and feel comfortable telling him how you feel. You would be devastated if you shared your feelings and it caused some trouble for your relationship.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com