please help before my marriage is over. i think this time he is gonna leave me for good
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
my husband and i have been married for soon be 9 months and we dated for a year before getting married and now i am having problems. he is wanting to go to friends houses and visit and then he asked me if he could send a e-mail to a girl that he went to the police academy with thats lives approx 100 miles away from us. we are trying to have a child together for approx 1 year and no luck so naturally hormones are gonna rage. he says that he cant go over to a friends house to "have a beer" because i am so jealous and he cant go out with a friend becuase of me. where we live he is from here and i am not. i dont have any body. i dont understand why someone gets married and then wants to do things with out the other. he says that he loves me and only wants me. but when i get upset about things he threatens to throw me out so what am i suppose to think and what do i do please help before my marriage is over. i think this time he is gonna leave me for good. thank you
You need to compromise.
Agree that he can go out and see friends and you won't complain if he will agree to go to a professional marriage counselor. He shouldn't be threatening to throw you out. That just isn't right.
Also go to a gynecologist and see if you can find out why you can't have children.
You also need to go out with him and meet his friends... unless this is an all mail deal. Also, you should let him email whoever he wants to unless it gets out of hand. Trust is a very important part of a relationship.
Good luck! George
-- from George
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