he would be right at home and considers my life perfect for him
Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
I was pursued by a man online through a singles sight.. and then I went to see him. thing were amazing and he called me for a few weeks after we met as we live on separate coasts. He was going through a bad divorice when he started things with me . Suddenly he called me and said he needed to date other people because is councilor told him he shouldn't jump into something serious right away.. So I gave him his space.. But, he would still tell me he can think of no one else .. sexually or otherwise. when he is on another date. I still gave him his space.. I emailed him once in a while.. Then he sends me an email apologizing that the emails have been a bit one sided but he enjoys them. Then I tell him that it seems as though he doesn't want to communicate with me and that it is not a relationship of any sort.. if two people don't communicate. That I will stop my contact with him if he wants me too. But he tells me don't you dare and that he fantisizes about coming to see me and that he would be right at home and considers my life perfect for him.. I am soo Confused as to what to do.. and I want him to pusue me again.. I want him for keeps what should I do?.
Ask him to come visit you.
His counselor told him not to get tied down too much with one person, but that doesn't mean he can't see you. You two would have lots of fun seeing each other again.
If you want to be pursued, you may have to adjust your wishes. Nowadays both the male and the female are the pursued and the pursuer. So don't feel that you are unusual by proposing things to him.
Wishing you the best! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com