I love him so much but i'm tired of wanting everything more than him
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Me and my ex have been talkin since we broke up. Most of the time we do the same things that we did when were together. I am so confused about us. It always seems like were gonna get back together but we havent. He still wants to have sex with me but he doesnt wanna be committed. Its like he can do whatever he wants. He would get mad at me if i was to even talk to another boy. I wouldnt anyway because i love him too much. But i really dont know if i should give up on us. I try so hard to make things work. I would do anything for him and its just like it doesnt matter. He tells me he loves me and I do believe him but then sometimes the way he acts is like how can treat someone u love like this. He call and talks to me when he wants to. He sees me when he wants to. He will go places with me when he wants to, which is harldy ever now. I love him so much but im tired of wanting everything more than him. He has had 3 months to figure out what he is going to do about us. The answer is still i dont know. He says hes scared of the commitment. But i dont understand why because it wasnt like that until jus recently. He always said he would never leave me and he kinda did. Everything that he said (and i believed it) he has changed. I love him so much but im tired of waiting. I dont want to be waiting and never get a answer or something blows up in my face like he gotta new girlfriend. Please give me advice because im really upset and i need it.
It's time to put your foot down and tell him to put up or shut up.
You've been stepped on for too long. He is taking advantage of your love for him. You can't stay in this situation without suffering a lot for it. Suffering is not what you need from him.
Let him know how you feel and try to get a straight answer out of him.
Good luck to you! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com