she wants to get her life in order first
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Im 22 years old who needs help dealing with a tough situation, I met this girl at my friends wedding about 7 months ago and at the time she had a boyfriend. We became friends and hung out together but always in groups. I started to like her alot but new she had a boyfriend and i didnt want to try anything. Well about 3 months ago she called me up crying saying she broke it off with him because he did something that realy hurt her. Well being the friend that i was i took time out of my day to help her move her stuff out of their apartment and all that stuff. Well we started hanging out after that almost everyday for two weeks. Needless to say we got physical and then started telling each other i love you. Well a couple weeks later he called and said he was sorry and that he just wants to be friends. Well i know know that after that they started talking every day on the phone and texting back and forth. HE also stops by her house when im not their and they have hung out on a couple of accations. And then yesterday i confronted her and told her what she is doing isnt right and that it needs to stop well then she told me she loves me and wants to marry me but she wants to get her life in order first and that maybe we should cool it down until shes ready to put her past behind her and give me 100% of her. What should i do she says she loves me and has even talked to me about marriage and told my mom shes going to marry me. I know she still loves her ex and that hes being realy nice and she likes it. thers is more to this story but i dont want to waist to much of your time. Please help!!!!!!!
Sounds like you should stop pressuring her regarding her ex.
She has made it clear that she wants to marry you. You are not too comfortable with this, but you should wait for her to do her thing.
I wish you the best! George
-- from George
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