if I ask, then the other girl will hate me even more
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Okay. Today something bad happened. The girl that likes me got angry at me because she thinks I like this other girl (which I do, but I said I don't like her in that way). She is also mad at the girl that I like. The girl that I like got mad at me and the girl that likes me and we had a big fight about it. The girl that I like was yelling at us and stuff. After school, I felt really, really sad, like on the brink of being suicidal. I felt that I would never be with the girl that I like.
Some more info: I found out that at least two other guys like the same girl I do. I don't know what to do know. If I tell her that I like her, then the other girl will hate me more, and even worse, if I get rejected, I will end up with two broken relationships.
Tommorow I am going to see if they want to watch Fight Club with me. It might cheer them up a bit, because I talk about it a lot and they don't get what I am saying. If they watch it, they will understand me better.
So, I just want to know what I should do. I don't want to miss out on somehing that could be beautiful, but I will risk 2 good friends of mine if I do anything. Also, I have no way to tell her. I don't have her phone number or anything, and if I ask, then the other girl will hate me even more.
Thanks in advance!
This has me very confused.
And, then you finish by wanting them to watch Fight Club together with you. It is probably not a good idea to get them together. But, this is your choice so I hope it works out for you.
Best hope is to be honest with both of them. You risk ruining two relationships, but at least you will know where you stand and can proceed from there.
BTW, if you seriously feel suicidal call 1-800-SUICIDE or 911 or talk with your school counselor.
Good luck! George
-- from George
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