I'm to scared to ask him if he likes me, cause he is my boss
Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
Does he share my feelings.
Hi, I'm a 36 female mother of 4, been divorced about 3 years. There is this guy at work , who is a divorced father of 2. We have chatted on sevral occasions. he knows alot about my personal life , as I do his. I know his ex wife cheated on him and I know he will only date bad girls, not nice girls that he might fall for. I know he won't date anyone he works with, I know all this cause he has told me this. Inspite of it all I have a huge crush on him and I swear, sometimes he might like me also. He is my department manager and takes his job serious. I'm to scared to ask him if he likes me, cause he is my boss, and I don't want to go there, but I'm crazy about him and I don't know what to do. lately , since he became my bosss , I notice when I ask him a question, he avoids eye contact with me and looks past me or over me, like he is almost afraid to lead me on etc, cause he probably can tell I like him. I have made it a point, by flirting , that i'd be with him , all he has to do is ask!
You have three strikes against you.
He doesn't like nice girls (like you),
You work at the same place AND
He is your boss.
Plus he is giving you the wrong signals.
This is going nowhere so you should cut your losses and move on.
Sorry you are in this mess! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com