when I talked to someone else and didn't tell him, he freaked out
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
My boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me 5 days ago, saying that he couldn't trust me. I already let him look at my phones and read email if he was worried. Although neither of us has ever cheated, he was really paranoid that I would, and when I talked to someone else and didn't tell him, he freaked out and broke up with me. What things can I do to slowly start things up again? I've written him a letter, but dont know when/if to give it to him. Is now too soon? We're not speaking as of now, except for one short angry phone call from him. I'm really sorry and will do anything! ANY advice will help...except moving on to someone else, because I'm not doing that anytime soon. I want him to see that he's the only one for me.
I answered your question from earlier today so this reply won't be a surprise.
Again, dump the guy--he is not for you... and maybe not for anyone else until he does a lot of maturing and there is no guarantee that he will do that.
Please think it over and do yourself a favor.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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