but I can't come up with anything to talk about

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
There is this girl I kinda like, but we are not exactly friends.....we just know each other. I talked to her today and found out we had something in common.. We both hate spiders. and we had a long conversation about it too. the only problem is my interests are uh, "different" than hers. I am more of a smart person(so is she) who is into mechanical stuff but i dont know what she is interested in. and she seems kinda "shy" and wont tell me when I ask her so I dont want to make her uncomfortable by prodding her buissness.. but Icant come up with anything to talk about. I and dont want to talk about my self because I am trying not to turn her off. what do I do?

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Do talk about yourself at least half the time, she will not be so shy if you are doing most of the talking.

Also see this website for topics to talk about:


Hopefully you will find something there! George

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