it is so hard seeing him everyday and sleeping in the same bed as him
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
My Boyfriend and I have dated for almost 5 years, we have lived together for 2 1/2. When we first started dating everything was great, we had the best relationship, our friends were always jealous of our love. we did everyting together, we went to family functions, movies, vacations, the gym, breakfast lunch and dinner, just everything a couple in love does. And then about 3 months ago he said his feelings were beginning to change. He said that he still loved me and was still in love with me, but he wanted to take a break. So we did for a few days and then he tells me that he doesnt want to take a break anymore, and that he wants to be with me. We used to talk about marriage, kids, and our future. Then we start arguing a lot, over petty things, it would drive him crazy when i would just want to talk. I may have talked too much and bothered him alot with relationship stuff, but i didnt realize how serious it was getting. He began to hate me, and then just recently he tells me that he lovews and and alway will, but hes not happy and we cant be together. I begged him not to do this, that he is the best thing that ever happened to me. I am 21 and he is 22. We live with his parents and this is the closest thing to a family that i have ever had, i dont want to lose everything, especially him. I begged him to give me another chance, that i can change for him, i would do anything for him, but he says no, that we cant be together. He's never cheated on me or anything, he has taken care of me for years. I want him back, i miss him more than you can imagine. He is the love of my life....what can i do??? Please HELP ME!! We are still living together because i have no other place to go, and it is so hard seeing him everyday and sleeping in the same bed as him and not being able to hold him or be myself. PLEASE.....HELP!
Keep as close to him as a friend as you can.
Friendship will help you two maintain conversation and hopefully spark his love for you again.
He is probably not fully understanding himself and needs time.
I am very sorry that you are in this situation and hope things work out for you.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com