since the middle of last week my gf has been acting alot different. she talks to me differently
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
me again. my gf and her old best friend had an arguement a couple weeks ago and my gf said that she would start hanging out with her more so they could become best friends again. she told me about this and i was fine with it, i mean, i dont see i why i wouldnt be. but any ways, so they have been hanging out alot together and ive taken this time to get more hours in at work to get a little extra cash. but since the middle of last week my gf has been acting alot different. she talks to me differently, kinda like her bf use to. when she talks to me it doesnt seem like its my gf talking to me, it seems like its just one of my ordinary friends talking to me. and whenever i talk to her in school she kinda has like this edgy tone to her voice, like shes mad or somthing, and only talks that way to me. ill talk to her and she will talk to me weird and then she will start talking to some one else and be all happy and laughing and stuff. ive broughten this up with her before and she said that shes noticed it to and said that she would stop doing it. but now she just kinda makes fun of me for it. today i said good bye to her as i was walking into my photo class and she says "good bye p*!" in a mean voice and then says that shes just kidding. i dont get why she would do that to me when she knows that i was worried about how she was talking to me and then just goes and does that. i have no idea whats goin on in her head right now but hopfully i will get the chance to talk to her about it tonight. im thinking this all has to do somthing with her and her best friend. any advice you have will be greatly apreciated. thanks.
You two need a long close caring honest and trusting talk about what is going on. No arguing... if you sense an argument happening just shut up or say you understand. Don't give up though, you can understand but look at it a different way.
No telling what her problem is, but I hope you can find out and fix it.
Good luck! George
-- from George
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