she did not hold her virginity high because she was never taught to
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Me and my girlfriend were talking the other day and i ask her a question about here first sex partner. She said that they were never in a relationship and that she did not hold her virginity high because she was never taught to. We had broken up for a week with intentions on getting back together and we did. But i asked her if she had seen her first during the period that we were broken up do you think you would have had sex with him and she said probably. So that made me question her love for me and she rebuddled and said that that could not question our love because we were not together at the time. I told her that i would have not have thought about doing somethin like that to her and she said she understand. She also added that i take thing to serious, like it had happened. We have been together for 4years, that is why i am wondering how could a guy who she has never seen in almost 6 years pop up out of the blue and have sex with her. Is she the one for me or does she still have deep feelings for this guy? Should i not worry about this, or should i move on and forget it? She's tired of me questioning her.
She should be willing to listen to your questions unless you become obsessed with the subject.
It sounds like you are on the edge of being obsessional.
As she says your "what if" questions are not real and her answers should be taken with a grain of salt. She doens't really know what she would do.
My advice is to drop the subject and continue your relationship.
And, if you don't want to know the answer, don't ask the question.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com