I love my childs mother dearly but she seems to only love me because of our son
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Im 22 almost shes 21 I have know this girl since new years 2000 we were together for most of 4 years and apart for 1 1/2 years. We have a 3 1/2 yr old boy. she had just recently broke up with a guy she had dated for 3-4 months and has have a few guys since our breakup, I am close to someone but not dating for about 5 months, I love my childs mother dearly but she seems to only love me because of our son. she knows that I want to be with her but she is seems to not want to be with me, she has our kid, I see him almost daily and lately she has stayed around when I see him and all played together getting along well. how do i porve to her that I she can trust me? (her main excuse for not tring to get back together) I just asked today if she will go to the movies within the next week with me Thinking just the 2 of us but not stating this she agrees for us to go to a scary movie with our son (he does like them) Is this only like a family thing or is she secretly wanting to slowly get back together if things go well ??? JM in GC IL
This is a tough question to answer.
You didn't mention why she doesn't trust you. Best thing to do there is to talk with her (gently) about the subject and assure her that you have changed.
You can only wait and see what her intentions are... she might not even know herself and may not think about it. Keep on doing what you are, it seems like it is working.
-- from George
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