I have tried to suppress my feelings, but the more time we spend together, the tougher it becomes

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I have fallin love with my co-worker/friend. The tricky thing about t is we work very closely together and do a lot of traveling the two of us. We make a good sales team and feed off each other very well.

She told me recently, that she took the job because she had a crush on me. I had known her for a few years before hand and had a slight crush on her when I hired her.

In our five years of working together, we have not had any type of relationship except work and of course our flirting with each other.

She told me a few months ago that she is gay. I never knew, but I know a lot of her friends were. She still finds men physically attractive, but says that is it.

Now we still flirt and have a great time together and she recently went on a date with another guy. She is not open about her sexuality to many others, and does not want to come out.

I have tried to suppress my feelings for her, but the more time we spend together, the tougher it becomes. We work great together and are very successful. I do not want to jeopardize our friendship and of course our jobs, but have come to the point that one might have to go.

What route should I take? I don't want to scare her at all.

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Keep on doing what you've done for so long.

It works to everyone's advantage.

Forget any romance.

Good luck! George

-- from George
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