So whenever i call her i feel like i'm disturbing her
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I'm proceeding as per your suggestion. But i've found that there is little change in her attitude ever since i've told her about my feelings. I don't she hesistates to sms me like before. Even i do hesitate to initiate to call her sms her. I think twice before dialing her number. I always try to get close to her. But she is so busy with her new relationship that she doesn't have time which makes so frustated. I'm lossing my patience now. Sometime i feeling like blasting on her i'm lossing my temperment.that why she not giving attention to me. Ive became so jealous when i think of her that she having fun with him.. and i'm wasting my time thnking about her. I'm feel helpless sometimes. Its been on 8 months since she has started the new relation. So whenever i call her i feel like i'm disturbing her. Even though i don't make frequent calls. just once in a week. Please advice me how to handle this bad situation. I really love her a lot but i'm helpless at this moment.
It may be time to cut her free.
Eight months is a long time to wait and your emotions are starting to become negative as you interact with her. It must be very frustrating to you.
My advice is to move on to some other girl, but if you are determined to continue to try with your ex, just keep doing what you have been doing. Make sure your phone calls are not too long... 15 minutes max.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com