he told me he will call later to chat but no calls at all, no messages, no sms.Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I have a problem and im really confused. My fiance with me in september which i am suppose to get married to him nxt year june. And at the same time, I met this guy "I" in march2005. Instantly we click and till now we still keep in contact. I know he have feelings for me and i have feelings for him, and we both know how each other feel but somehow Im not convinced. (And this is not the reason why my fiance broke off our engagement, not because of third party). We (me and "I") went out after I am already single. From the start of our friendship, he never fail to make me smile and was always advicing me about the problems i had while i was engaged and after my break up. He is really nice and went out few days (3 dates) and I had a great time. Sadly, we ended up having sex in his car on the 3rd date. How we ended up having sex is because we played poker truth or dare in his car, and loosers have to strip and we both ended up naked. As he is my 2nd I made love with, Im not convince that he really do love me. Why do I say so is because, he said he wanted to have sex because he wants to try it for the first time with me, someone he love and if I love him maybe he cld try it with me, no force or violence was use as I was already high when he caress me all over. At first I reject him but Im already so high(wet), we ended up making love. After making love, he told me its not so great as the great feeling is just for awhile. Its not so great for me either but after doing it, I felt cheap and I cried and kept quiet after that and I told him how and what I felt. He console me, told me he love me still. Something tells me that he will slowly fade away within these few weeks and that makes me feel used. After we had sex, he told me he will call later to chat but no calls at all, no messages, no sms. I dont know why but I dont trust him, there is something abt him that i feel he is hidding something and he is not being honest with me. I dont trust him that this is his first time doing it. I need your point of view abt this please.
Follow your gut feelings.
Have a long conversation with him and gently ask him the questions you have. If he refuses to answer then move on. Otherwise, explain your feelings to him and hopefully things will work out.
Good luck! George
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