i am really suffering with my jealousy and anger

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i am really suffering with my jelously and anger. I cant even stand it when he looks at porn, or even worse when another woman is around and he constanstly stares, even at her breasts when i am there. i feel mad because where is the respect for me, has he no awarness i can see where his eyes wonder. I wouldn't sit there looking at a mans crotch...and i wouldn't really turn me on anyway. I do not think he would cheat, but my pure anger and jelously come from that situation and his thoughts/fantasies that roll through his head right in front of my eyes.
I confronted him and he just said he's a people watcher...yer right!!!! I am thinking of ending it as it hurts and fustrates me so much!

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I agree with you.

Some people have no consideration about the feelings of their partner and use the excuse that they are "people watchers." The bottom line is that they are not paying attention to you and don't care how you feel.

Tell him you are going to dump him if he doesn't cut it out... and then dump him if you have to.

Good luck!

-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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