i cant talk to her coz im shy
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
hey!ok i like this gal she is 16 and im 17 ! three weeks now i see her every day and i cant talk to her coz im shy ! but inside me theres this alert that tells me go 4 it or else! well i dont wanna spend every day after school tellin to myself ''i should have said something'' !i found out that she likes someone else! Now wat do u think i should do? Should i go to her and say that i wanted to talk to her but i couldnt and i really like her? or should i say hi and start up as friends!! please help me out ! tell me what would be best to do! :(
Ask yourself... do I want to talk to her or not?
If not, then forget the whole thing.
If yes, then... guess what... you have to talk to her.
Once you decide to talk to her all it takes is courage, guts, and bravery.
She said hi to you, so are you going to let her be braver than you?
Next time you are close, look her in the eyes, smile and say Hi [Jane].
That's all it takes. Later add "How are you doing" and she'll say fine, how are you. Soon you will be talking like old friends.
Don't worry about the rumors she likes someone else. Do your own thing.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com