Neither of them have told me that they want any thing more than sex

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
This is a very hard situation for me, so Im sure it will be just as hard for you all. For the past few months I have been having sex with this friend of mine. And in the mean time, I have also been having sex with another friend of mine, who is also a friend of his. They just found out about each other recently. Neither one has hard feelings for the other, so I dont know if either one really has feelings for me. However, I have feelings for both of them. When I am with one, it feels so right and Im not even worried about the other one. But then when the tables are turned and I am with the other one, its the exact same. One of them has been trying to date this other girl, and things may or may not work out with that at this point. I dont know what to do. There is no way that I can just pour out my feelings to ONE of them because, when I am with the other one, I want him too. Neither of them have told me that they want any thing more than sex, but I am sick and tired of getting nothing but sex. PLEASE HELP ME!!!!! Advice
You already know the answer.

Neither one of them care for you very much. I doubt if that is the kind of relationship you want to have with a partner. No matter how much you love them.

It would be best for the three of you if you were to drop both of them and find one guy who makes you happy.

You will feel better about yourself if you do.

Good luck!

-- from George
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