I know plenty of girls, but find it impossible to hold a conversation with them

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I know plenty of girls, but find it impossible to hold a conversation with them, especially on a night out. I don't even want to chat them up or anything just to hold a general conversation with them, without talking about boring things. I can only ask them about college the weather and what their up to so often. My mind goes blank and i just can.t think of anything to say. I just don't have anything exciting or funny to say. I am very panorid that i am boring them when i talk to them. And even if i was to get with a girl where do you go from then what do you speak about for the rest of the night???

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The answer is truly simple.

Talk to them from your heart. What is on your mind. What problems have you gone through in your life. What romantic relationships have you had.

The same goes for her... she should volunteer a response to your conversation, but if she doesn't then ask her the same sorts of questions.

It all comes down to talking honestly about what's on your mind. Even if it is the fact that you are having trouble finding out what's on your mind :)

Good luck!

-- from George
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