This girl and I have done more stuff together than her and her boyfriend
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
This girl that i love has a boyfriend but I know she loves me b/c she always wants to meet me places to talk and kiss. I have asked her if she loves me so much then why won't she break up with her boyfriend and she says she doesn't know how. Now this has been like this for almost a year. I know i love her b/c everytime I think about moving on I can't possibly imagine bein with anyone else. This girl and I have done more stuff together than her and her boyfriend have so I know she loves me. She tells me that she thinks if we go out then it will be different and I won't be the same around her. She also thinks i won't date her very long b/c i used to break up w/ her all the time when we were in junior high. I am now a junior and so is she, her b/f is a senior. Everytime i bring anything up about why she won't break up w/ him she doesn't want to talk about it. She tells me to move on but i can't and I know she doesn't want me to.She says she hates cheating on her b/f but it is to late so it doesn't matter. I feel like maybe if i tell her either you go out w/ me or I am done but then she will think that I don't love her. There is no way I will ever stop loving her but I want to be w/ her more than anything in the world.
You may feel like you are in love, but my sense is that you enjoy the excitement of cheating and the lust of kissing etc.
If you were to think of her as a person, you would ask yourself what kind of person cheats on her boyfriend for a year but won't breakup with him.
Moving on is the right thing to do unless she breaks up with her b/f. Otherwise you would have to worry about her cheating on you.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com