I lied to her so she broke up with me
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
My girlfriend broke up with me because I lied about going to the movies with my friend and some other girls. The other girls were friends from childhood and we had just found each other again. Well my girl friend didnt like the fact that I lied to her so she broke up with me. But after a couple of days we got back together and she told me not to ever talk to her again, and I agreed. But I did and she found out, now we are completetly broken up...and I want her back....but she says that me and her could never again be and she is starting to see other people...i really want her back i love her to death what do I do...my girlfriend and I went out for 3 years....and she feels like she cant trust me anymore..and now she is dating around with a couple of guys.
My guess is that she was getting tired of you and was just looking for a way out.
It doesn't seem to me that you did anything terribly bad that she couldn't forgive you. But, again, some people do react more strongly than others.
My advice is to find someone new. She is doing that and has made it clear to you that she is not interested in you.
But, if you want to find out for yourself, ask her out and see what happens.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com