he started talking to one of my good friends online, sometimes until 2 or 3 in the morning
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I have been with my boyfriend for over 4 months, but I have recently become quite jealous in the relationship. It's ever since he started talking to one of my good friends online, sometimes until 2 or 3 in the morning. I often get very jealous of this and ask him why he talks to her that late, but he says he doesn't know why. I think they both like each other, as in a conversation between them both (according to my boyfriend) she was hinting that she liked him. I am unsure what to do, my boyfriend says he loves me, and doesn't like her.
I would be jealous too.
Try asking him to not chat with her so late at night as a favor to you. It's going to be difficult for him since he probably has a habit now. Ask him to try to stop but be unable to so tell him if he can't stop for him to tell you rather than keep it a secret.
So first try asking him to stop. If that doesn't work then you will have to trust him.
-- from George
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