I get to know more things about him and get to know him a lot more better.Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
I'm am very confused about my love life. I don't know if I like him or love him or if its just a crush. He's one of my best friends. Before I knew that I felt these feelings for him I used to talk to him with confidence. Now, for the past week ... I get shy and nervous when I talk to him and thats wierd! Last week I was mad at him because he made my friend mad and then he asked me why was I mad at him and I said that I wasn't mad at him for what he did and its just that if I told him he wouldn't understand. So, he wrote me a letter saying that he wants to fix things between us. So I wrote him back and told him that I had feelings for him and since he's my bestfriend I didn't want our friendship to get ruin'd. He responded and said that he also does'nt want our friendship ruin'd. Me and him ended up leaving this as friends. Although, ever since I wrote him back we've been writing to each other partically everyday and if we have time twice a day and this is a good thing because I get to know more things about him and get to know him a lot more better.
My Question is ... What can I do about this situation? Because I'm still "inlove" with him even tough he practically rejected me. But still, we've come closer in a way by writing to each other and thats one thing that has helped me.
Keep on doing what you have been doing with him. It seems to be working successfully so far. Best friends often turn in bf/gf so stay friends.
Sometime in the next two weeks or so, ask him if he believes it is possible for best friends to become a couple. This will tell you how he feels about things and also gives him another opportunity to ask you to go out.
Make friendly dates with him like going to the movies, or walking in the park, or eating out. The activities will give him a sense of what it would be like dating you.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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