I am always the one who calls or writes text messages to her
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
ok well there is this girl that i have been kinda dating i guess you could say..... for a while now and I always tell her how much i like her and I am such a gentlemen to her. I buy her flowers, hang out whenever she wants.. basically do a lot to show her that I really care about her. she says she really likes me a lot, she tells everyone how great I am and how much she likes me!! But the problem is she doesn't really show it.We do kiss and stuff when we are together so she shows it in that way but..... I always try to hang out with her but she usually has other plans, she never makes plans with me though.. I am always the one who calls or writes text messages to her. I tell her to call me and she always says its the guys job or she feels wierd when she calls me.. I tell her that I love it when she calls me.. but still she doesn't. She has ditched me to hang out with other friends quite a lot when we have had somewhat planswith her. Her friends and I always tell her how stupid she is and how she needs to realize how she treats me!! She agrees with them but never does anything about it. So you see she says she really likes me a lot but i guess she doesn't really know how to show it, or maybe she doesn't even like me.. What should I do or what can I do????
You need to talk with her.
Make the talks long, honest, trusting, loving, and attentive. Tell her your problems and how you think they could be resolved. If they are not resolved by her actions, then have another talk.
This is the best way to get a change out of a person. You could also act out and put her through some emotional turmoil, but I don't advise that.
-- from George
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