she likes me as a friend but hesitates to love me

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male

I love a girl and even i proposed her.

we worked for some months together in a company. she was really friendly with me.

the time came when we had to be seperated, for about 2 months we had no contact.

but one day i tried to contact her and she responded really well to my call, the n the same relation went upto another 3 months, then one day i proposed her saying that i have been developing some feelings for you, but she denied this and said that she had an affair before with a guy, she had already broke up long ago with that guy.

till today she likes me as a friend but hesitates to love me.

more over every time she contacts me , she has something to gain from me.

she only contacts me if she has profit in it.

but i call up her daily through phone sine we been in contact.

since regathering we have hardly met 4 times.

sometimes if i request her some help she doesnt care me.

can in future she loves me.

or shall i continue the same friendly relation ship with her. Advice
Continue the same friendly relationship with her.

She does not sound like she has very strong feelings for you, but over time she may develop feelings in the future.

Don't let her take advantage of you. She should do things for you as you do things for her.

Ask her out for dates and see if she is nice to you.

Seems she is not a caring person.

Good luck!

-- from George
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