Sometimes I just feel so ashamed and inferior and I don't ask girls outVisitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Sometimes I just feel so ashamed and inferior and I don't ask girls out. It's because I do not have a car and most guys do. I'm worried that I might be easily rejected by classy high fashion girls, which are my favorite to approach. My finances are in a shambles and I'm low on cash as a student, and I'm a single guy still living with the family. Some say wait till I have finacial stability and a career then start going out again. But I can't put my life on hold because of finances, I want someone to struggle with and talk to, intimately that's the foundation of romance and a test of true love. Back in high school things were easy girls liked me because I was either cute, smart, funny, or full of action. Now it's not just about being cute thy are interested in my financial situation as well. I wan't to date and have more fun with women but I just don't know how to justify to them not having a car and minimum amounts of cash, while being in my mid to late 20's. Please help me with dating tips, strategies, advice, and solutions. Thank you. Ken.
The solution is to choose women younger than you.
You can get classy women in their early twenties who are not as choosy about cars and cash.
This is not to say it will be a piece of cake. The real answer is for you to make some money, get a car, and feel good again. If you are a grad student you can find funds to keep you going.
The way things are, you have few options but to make some money.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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