everytime I try to talk with her I tense up and get scared
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Ok well there is this girl that I like and she`s on my bus for school,and were friends right now but seem to have a little crush on her nad everytime I try to talk with her I tense up and get scared,and it gets to the point hwere I can`t even look at her cause im so nervous and I have a feeling she li8kes me but I dont know how to talk with her without being nervous!!!!Please help me
If you sit next to her my advice will be easier.
Just say to her "You know sometimes I don't talk to you because I am so nervous." If she asks why you are nervous tell her it's because you have a crush on her. Then ask for her phone number, email, whatever. Then ask her what classes she is taking in school and how she likes them. Be prepared for making small talk whenever you can. Friends, parents, siblings, music, etc.
If she doesn't sit by you on the bus, then call her aside when you get off the bus and tell her the same things.
This all will take courage to do, I hope you have it!
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com