she said she wanted to take her time with us to see what happens which I think is good
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I called the girl after four days we last spoke when I left her house.
I called later that day after the time I said I would call her. It went to her voice mail, I left a message saying sorry about not calling earlier and that it the plans did not fall through, ones that we had talk about doing that morning. I was a little upset about her not calling the night before when were supposed to hang out. She called latter that night and asked me to come over. Anyway she didn't return my call from the voice mail I had left. Four days had past and I called her voice mail and asked if she want to get coffee later and hang out for a while, I wanted to talk about what was going on with us and tell her sorry if I came on to strong for asking if she wanted to to a reception. Later she called back saying that she did want to hang out but she needed to take a nap then call me after. Cool I thought, she never called back. Its two nights later and I wondering if I should I bother anymore. I know she is still getting over her ex, she said she wanted to take her time with us to see what happens which I think is good. I wounder if the fact that is she 24 and I'm 30 has to do anything with it?
It sounds like she is not interested.
But you never can know. Give her a few more calls and ask her out and see what happens. You would regret it if you didn't.
-- from George
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