i went to virginia and met a 13 year old girlVisitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
'Im 17 going on 18 in oct. and i have bad social problems with girls my age or older but over the summer i went to virgina and ment a 13 year old girl, one of a twin, who i happen to get along with very well infact i ask her out although i live in New York , we chat and talk on the phone all the time but i question the age diffence alot but knowing myself very well i am committed to my relgion and not to give myself up till i am married even if she put pressure on me i still wud excuse myself ,along with being aware of the legal issues people wud say this wud be wrong ,but the fact is she is 13 and i really like her and i also met her mother and shes very nice but I think she has no idea that me and her daughter has a thing for each other. Im an honest person ,my question is, is this wrong and if her mother found out how do U think she wud react cuz im close with her also.As for her father from wat i saw he's strict because he was part of the navy.Because of myy age (18) i think the first thought wud be sex.If her parents find out can i tell them that i wud never put any sexual pressure on there daughter and wud they honestly believe me.
You are going to have trouble with her parents.
Your best shot (which is not a good one) is to talk with her father and tell him how old you are, how you feel religiously. Hope then that he is a trusting person and lets you proceed.
Any other course will be a tale of lies and that's no good.
-- from George
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