I can't meet him due to lack of money, my conservative family, & without proper guidence
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Hello,I have a problem in love.I met him online.firstly,I never had b/f b4 although i m 26.But he had g/fs.Also I m frm asian country where consrvative traditions are ruled.So when we met online ,we ready for as to be b/f & g/f of each other.Then he asked me that we should meet each other.He lives in progressive european country.So problem starts from here.As I can't meet him due to lack of money,my conservative family,& without proper guidence,i thought that he might not be trustworthy as I was advised by many. so I believe on them.With this tension ,I e-mailed him that I can't be good as his g/f.
But later once he hinted me that I can come back to him.But I did not recognise his signal.Then again I e-mailed him that I will not talk him on online.Suddenely after that I don't know why I began to think better for him.I really am missing him sooo much.I again e-mailed him,but he did not respond it.What should I do now?We met 3 months before.Should I go to meet him to his country as I can not invite him to mine due to my family.Or should I forget him which is really hard? I also gave brief idea of my family.Please advise me.
You have too many things against you.
Lack of money, lack of family support, difference of customs, distance, and now his lack of response to your emails.
If you are to have any hopes, you must get him to start up an email conversation again. Without contact nothing can happen.
My advice, though, is for you to forget him and find a man who lives near you and who your parents approve of.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com