From the first day I saw her I just couldn't stop thinking about her

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I'm about 23 years old. I noticed this girl in my medical school program sitting all the way in the back. I've never experienced the true feeling of love. From the first day I saw her I just couldn't stop thinking about her. She's very cute, short, looks polite and family oriented. I tried to approach her a couple times but I couldn't as I noticed she leaves fast after the class ends and doesn't socialize that much or probably it's me.

I'm okay looking but not that very attractive, and I fear because I'm a little bit thin that she might not really be intereseted in me and I don't want to break my heart, and in the same time I don't know if she has a boy friend or not. So
what shall I do?. Please let me know Advice
If you don't try, you won't succeed.

Can you move your seat farther to the rear where you have a better chance of talking with her after class? Or, you could "skip" the class and stand by the door waiting for her to come out.

The next step is overcoming initial shyness and introducing yourself to her, exchanging phone numbers, and promising to call.

You don't have to tell her you like her if you are too shy, she will know from your actions that you do.

Don't worry about your looks too much, she is more likely to be attracted to your brain.

Good luck!

-- from George
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