ARKANSAS AND I HAVE A JOB LINED UP AND I HAVE A WHOLE 25 ACRES DOWN THERE
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
ME AND MY BEST FRIEND HAVE BEEN BEST FRIENDS FOR MANY YEARS LIKE 7 OR 8. BUT NOW HE IS AWAY FOR COLLAGE FOR 2 YEARS. I JUST GOT BACK FROM ARKANSA AND I HAVE A JOB LINED UP DOWN THERE AND I HAVE A WHOLE 25 ACERS DOWN THERE ALL I NEED IS TO BUILD THE HOUSE. BUT WHEN I TOLD HIM THIS ON THE PHONE HE CAME OUT WITH SOME FEELINGS I KNEW ABOUT BUT NEVER THOUGHT WOULD COME OUT. SEE HE MIGHT BE MY BEST FRIENDS BUT SINCE ABOUT THE 2ND YEARS OF KNOWING EACH OTHER WE BOTH FELL IN LOVE WITH EACHOTHER. AND BOTH KNEW BUT WE NEVER WANTED TO START A THING BECAUSE WE DIDNT WANT TO HURT OUR FRIENDSHIP. BUT I GUESS NOW THAT WE ARE OLDER HE WANT TO START A REALATIONSHIP. NOW I WANT NOTHING MORE THEN TO BE WITH HIM I LOVE HIM MORE THEN I DO ANYONE ELSE IN THIS WOULD. HE REALLY MAKES MY HEAD GO CRAZY WHEN I THINK OF HIM. BUT I DONT KNOW WHAT I SHOULD DO BECAUSE I AM SCARED OF SOMETHING GOING WRONG AND WE NOT BEING FRIENDS ANYMORE. AND MY PEARENTS DONT LIKE THIS IDEA BECAUSE I HAVE 25ACERS AND A JOB DOWN IN ARKANSAS. SO PLEASE HELP ME I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO. THE ONLY THING I KNOW FOR SURE IS I LOVE HIM SO MUCH I WOULD DIE IF I LOST HIM.
If you love him so much then you must do whatever you can to keep him.
Don't burn all your bridges though and think carefully about what you do.
Talk this over carefully with you boyfreind and make sure that you are both on the same wavelength.
I'm sure your parents will support you in whatever makes you happy.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com