he'll see me in the hallways but he won't speak
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I used to date this guy, but we broke up because he said he wasn't ready for a girlfriend at that moment. Even after we split, we still had some sort of relationship going on. He ended up taking my virginity two months ago. Now, I think, he is talking to another girl. But he is still sexually involved with me. His sister and I are like best friends, and she is always telling me that her brother really does care about me and that he thinks he should be in a relationship with me, it's just that he is afraid it might end in a mistake. I mean sometimes I think the same thing. Anyways, he is always telling me that he does care about me and that I am special and different from other girls. Sometimes he doesn't treat me like that. Sometimes he gets all weird around me, like he'll see me in the hallways but he want speak well sometimes he does. I just don't know how to read him. Could you please help me?
You have a mixed up kid on your hands.
He is sexually involved with you but is still interested in another girl. He won't talk to you in the hallways.
You need to have to have a heart-to-heart talk with him and find out in an honest, caring, gentle way what is going on in his heart. Maybe even he doesn't know. You might have to help him figure it out.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com
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