I fell in love with this guy who goes to my church
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I fell in love with this guy who goes to my church.I starting going to bible study to see him more. We hardly ever talk. I have known him for almost a year now. He is two years older than me. I want to get to know him better, plus i don't even know if he likes me. I'm not always sure what to say to him because I don't want to act like a ditz, he is a very deep and intelligent person and I want to be playful with him or something, but I don't want him to get irriated or think I'm ditzy. I love him with everything I have, I find myself sorting out my life around him. I'm not even sure if I want him to know I like him because if he doesn't like me than I will be crushed and feel stupid. I also don't want our friendship to become awkward. He seems like he is perfect and so It's hard for me to talk to him. He once loved another girl and told her how he felt, and she broke his heart and told him she only liked him as a friend. So now I think he is afriad of something. He is very kind to everyone so it's hard to tell if he likes me. Since he seems so perfect, I find myself doubting myself more and more. I just don't know what to do.
Treat him as a friend. Always say hi to him and smile at him. Use his name when you talk to him. This will make you attractive to him and will also help you build your self-esteem.
Eventually you two will begin to share feelings and grow closer together. This should work out well.
Best of luck!
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com