He lied to me for 3 months straight
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
My situation is that my boyfriend and I were such a happy couple. He was a bit shady at times, etc..nothing major. He moved back to his hometown (another state) and we were good for 3 months until he came to visit me. For those 3 months I kept asking him if he was cheating because I had heard voicemails from this one chick and I suspected he was cheating or had cheated with her.
Finally I saw some real evidence. I called her, (he had given me her number to 'prove' nothing was going on). Idiot. sigh. She told me that the DAY he had left me in Florida, instead of driving right home, he stopped there, and they had lunch, kissed, he asked her upstairs...she said no. etc. For the next 3 months they had phone sex, texts, etc. The works. He would even text her that he was jealous when she would go to other guys houses. (she even told me she is a girl that sleeps around) When I confronted him he said he is just a guy with no self-confidence that loves me and wants to marry me and he would never do it again, it was a one-time mistake. it was a THREE MONTH mistake.
I'm afraid there are others and that he just wants to keep me because he doesn't want to lose me. He lied to me for 3 months straight and EVEN when I confronted him he lied which makes me believe that he is still lying. Help. He says mean racist things to me too. So now it's an interracial, long-distance, cheating, and lying relationship. He says if he is dating a 'white' girl it is a disgrace to the Black race. :-( help.
This is simple: dump him!
-- from George
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